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The Brain RAM Boost

If your brain has too many tabs open

Most of what the ADHD brain does happens on autopilot. Once a week, I’ll send you a short reflection — a small nudge to catch yourself in the act, and an action you can consider.

When we say we’re “overthinking,” often we’re just thinking the same incomplete thought on a loop. A hallmark of ADHD is a limited working memory. Getting the thought out, onto a page or to a person, is what allows you to finish it.

Consider this week:

Try this: Consider giving one recurring “don’t forget” a physical home or reminder, so your brain can finally let go of it.

The reframe: Speaking thoughts aloud and brain-dumping aren’t quirks. They’re accommodations that break you free of in-brain memory limits.

These weekly reflections aren’t about doing more or fixing yourself. They’re a moment to slow things down and notice what’s actually going on. Because noticing is usually where the change starts.

— Michael

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